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Protecting the Rights of Unmarried Couples in New Jersey

Not every long-term relationship is a marriage, but ending one can be just as complicated. When unmarried partners have built a life together, sharing a home, finances, and sometimes children, questions about support and property can be just as serious as in a divorce. The difference is that the rules are not the same.

New Jersey has not recognized “common law” marriage since 1939. That means living together for many years does not, by itself, give either partner the rights of a spouse. Instead, a partner who was promised financial support may have a claim for palimony, which is support based on an agreement between unmarried partners. Whether that claim can succeed depends largely on when and how the agreement was made.

Our attorneys at Adinolfi Roberto & Burick, PA help unmarried couples understand their rights and their exposure, whether you are pursuing a palimony claim, defending against one, or putting an agreement in writing to protect yourself.

Palimony in New Jersey Today

Agreements Made in 2010 or Later

In January 2010, New Jersey changed its law to require that palimony agreements be in writing and signed. A promise of support that was only spoken, or implied from how the couple lived, is no longer enough on its own.

The law originally also required that each partner have independent advice from an attorney. In 2022, the New Jersey Supreme Court ruled that this attorney-review requirement cannot be enforced, so a written, signed palimony agreement may be enforceable even if no attorneys were involved. Having an attorney review any agreement is still strongly recommended.

Agreements Made Before 2010

The 2010 change does not apply retroactively. For relationships where a promise of support was made before January 2010, an oral agreement, or one implied from the couple’s conduct, may still be enforceable.

In these older cases, courts look at the full picture of the relationship: what was promised, how the couple lived, and whether one partner gave up opportunities in reliance on the other’s promise. These claims are highly fact-specific and often depend on evidence from many years ago.

Other Issues When Unmarried Couples Separate

A Home You Own Together

When unmarried partners own a home together and separate, the family court’s equitable distribution rules do not apply. Disputes over who keeps the house, or how the proceeds are divided, are resolved under different rules. Read about buying a home as an unmarried couple.

Children

Unmarried parents generally have the same rights and responsibilities toward their children as married parents, including custody and parenting time and child support. Establishing parentage may be an important first step.

Cohabitation Agreements

Couples who live together, or plan to, can put their expectations in writing: who owns what, how shared expenses are handled, and whether either partner will provide support if the relationship ends. A clear written agreement can prevent costly disputes later.

Common Questions About Palimony in New Jersey

Does New Jersey recognize common law marriage?

No. New Jersey stopped recognizing new common law marriages in 1939. Living together, even for many years, does not create the legal rights of a marriage.

We never signed anything. Can I still make a palimony claim?

It depends on when the promise of support was made. For promises made in 2010 or later, a written, signed agreement is generally required. For promises made before 2010, an oral or implied agreement may still be enforceable, depending on the facts.

Do we need lawyers to sign a palimony agreement?

Under current New Jersey law, attorney review is no longer a requirement for a written palimony agreement to be enforceable. Even so, having independent counsel review the agreement is the best way to make sure it says what you intend and will hold up later.

Do we have to have lived together?

Living together is often an important part of the picture, but it is not the only factor courts consider. What matters most is what was promised and whether a valid agreement exists.

My partner and I own a home together. What happens if we split up?

Jointly owned property is handled differently for unmarried couples than for spouses. Read about palimony and owning a home in New Jersey.

Can unmarried couples sign an agreement similar to a prenup?

Yes. A written cohabitation or palimony agreement can address property, shared expenses, and support. Putting it in writing now is far easier than litigating it later.

Whether you are pursuing a palimony claim, defending against one, or want to protect yourself with a written agreement, contact our Mount Laurel office to schedule a confidential consultation with a South Jersey family law attorney.

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