What to know about retirement accounts – 401(k)s, pensions, and QDROs when a marriage ends One of the most common concerns people raise during a divorce is what will happen to their retirement account savings. After years—or sometimes decades—of working and planning for retirement, accounts such as 401(k)s, pensions, and IRAs often represent some ofRead more
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What Unmarried Couples Need to Know Before You Sign Across South Jersey — from Mount Laurel to Haddonfield to Cherry Hill — more couples are choosing to buy homes together before marriage. Rising housing costs, evolving relationship norms, and long-term financial planning are all part of the equation for unmarried couples. It’s a meaningful step.Read more
For many family law attorneys, January is consistently one of the busiest months of the year. January is colloquially known as the “divorce month” because of an uptick in divorce cases initiated after the holidays, also called the “New Year’s Resolution Divorce.” The reasons behind the increase in divorce filings during the month of January varyRead more
Borzillo v. Borzillo In family law, we expect difficult emotions, competing narratives, and disagreements over facts. What we do not expect—or tolerate—is bad faith. Recently, during oral argument, I referenced a definition that has guided New Jersey courts and continues to shape how judges evaluate conduct in divorce and post-judgment matters. As I explained: “Now, badRead more
Divorce is never easy—especially when kids are involved. Shared parenting can be a challenge for many families. One of the biggest concerns parents bring to me is this: “How can I make sure I stay present in my child’s life after divorce?” The good news? New Jersey courts want that, too. What the Courts WantRead more
Divorce is tough, but co-parenting adds an extra layer of complexity—especially when you believe your ex-spouse’s lifestyle may not align with the responsibilities of good parenting. Excessive partying, reckless behavior, or other questionable choices might raise concerns, but what can you do about it legally? Here’s a deeper dive into your options under New JerseyRead more
As we welcome the new year, reflecting on our lives and considering changes that may lead to a more fulfilling future is common. For some, this reflection leads to the difficult decision to pursue a divorce. I have guided many clients through this challenging process and understand the complexities involved. Here are some key considerationsRead more
The holiday season is a time of joy and celebration, but it can also bring unique challenges for divorced families, creating disputes around the holidays. One common issue is navigating gift-giving—a seemingly simple tradition that can quickly become a source of tension. When one parent overspends, ignores agreed-upon boundaries or uses gifts to compete, theRead more
During the holiday season, custody disputes can be incredibly emotional and frustrating, especially when one parent feels the other has not followed the agreed-upon schedule. If your ex-partner didn’t return your child for Thanksgiving, you might feel tempted to withhold your child for Christmas as a form of “making things even.” While this reaction isRead more
Thanksgiving is a time for gratitude, family connections, and cherished traditions. However, it can also bring unexpected challenges for families navigating custody agreements, particularly when disagreements arise over holiday plans. Emergent custody issues, such as last-minute disputes over schedules or unforeseen changes, can create stress and tension during what should be a joyful time. UnderstandingRead more